What is it about Mondays that can bring out the worst in people? I swear my husband and I can only fight on this unholy day of the week. Ha!
Today’s adventure in wife and motherhood…cleaning responsibilities! I find that as a stay at home mom, the cleaning falls MOSTLY on my shoulders. I actually get kind of offended when hubby cleans…like he is saying, “Hey, you aren’t capable of doing your job, let me do it for you!” I don’t think he quite understands why I get so mad every time he does this. The worst part is that I know I am being unreasonable but I just can’t stop the feeling of inadequacy when my husband says the house is a mess. It’s like your boss telling you that you did a terrible job and he/she will just do it for you.
Like many husbands, mine suffers from the inability to see the hamper located 2 inches away from his socks, the toothpaste holder next to the sink, and the stack of his belongings that he needs to put away for himself. Haha…only partly kidding! I don’t know why it seems this way with 98% of husbands. But know yours does not suffer alone! Treatment includes billboards pointing to the nearest clothing hamper 🙂
How about in your household? Do you expect a 50/50 chore list?
Finally, I’ll leave you with something to brighten up your Monday.
Have a good night!